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Amanda Knight was a student of the first ever CAEI Certificate course in Applied Emotional Intelligence, and is now the Director of Programmes with the Centre. AppliedEI represents the ethos and the work of the Centre for Applied Emotional Intelligence. |
Why is Applied Emotional Intelligence important?
So AppliedEI defines our approach to developing transformational leadership, high-performing teams, and personal effectiveness within organisations. |
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Our Ethos The CAEI promotes high performance and personal success through: learning to manage your relationships with others effectively acceptance of self and others. The CAEI promotes high performance and personal success by: facilitating the effective assessment and development of emotional intelligence through our flexible range of EI development products and services provided through a community of highly qualified EI practitioners
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The CAEI Approach Emotional intelligence predicts performance and success because these are both achieved through effective self management and effective relationship management. All aspects of emotional intelligence are changeable and developable, so high performance and personal success are achievable goals both for individuals and organisations. Because different people have different interferences which impede their acting with emotional intelligence, the development of emotional intelligence needs to be individual-oriented, and needs to be preceded by measurement of the individuals standing on each of the aspects of emotional intelligence. There is no quick fix for high performance and personal success: EI development, which involves changing attitudes and habits as well as acquiring knowledge and skills, is a medium-term investment (by the organisation and the individual) and takes time and commitment to be sustainable. But the rewards are significant. High performance and personal success require emotional intelligence: at the heart of emotional intelligence lies acceptance acceptance of self and others equally. |
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To act with emotional intelligence you need a complex set of attitudes and skills. (The skills can be learned and the attitudes can be adopted hence all aspects of EI are changeable and developable.) The two primary requisite attitudes are unconditional acceptance of self and of others, which together go to make up, in transactional analysis terms, the life position of Im OK Youre OK. What of the others? What are the other members of this complex set? We have reduced them to eight, which we call The Eight Principles of Emotional Intelligence or emotional intelligence mind set. However, although we give them that name, we did not really invent them. They are no more, and no less, than a codification of the philosophical assumptions underlying humanistic psychology. (1) They are not descriptive: we do not suggest that people habitually behave in a manner which conforms to the principles. On the contrary, because we all have our interferences and because the norms of the culture we live in are on the whole incompatible with the principles, a lot of the time we dont. (2) They are not prescriptive: we do not suggest that people ought to subscribe to these principles. People are entitled to believe whatever they want to believe, and to hold whatever attitudes they wish. (3) They are correlational. We observe three connections between holding to the principles and acting with emotional intelligence. (a) To the extent that you subscribe to the principles, you will find it easier to behave with emotional intelligence, i.e. to be good at self management and relationship management. Hence you are likely to be healthier, happier and more successful. (b) To the extent that you do not subscribe to the principles, you will find it more difficult to behave with emotional intelligence. (c) Whenever someone behaves in an emotionally unintelligent way, it will always be found on examination that they have breached one or more of these principles. |
The Eight Principles 1. We are each of us in control of and responsible for our actions. 2. No one else can control our feelings. 3. People are different: they experience the world differently; they feel different things; they want different things. 4. However you are, and they are, is OK. (Though this does not mean that whatever you and they do is necessarily OK.) 5. Feelings and behaviour are separate. (Being in touch with our feelings does not mean being out of control of ourselves and our behaviour.) 6. Feelings are self-justified, to be accepted and important. 7. Change is possible. 8. All people have a natural tendency towards growth and health. |
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Richard Harvey was involved with the UK Stores Change Programme with Marks & Spencer. He was introduced to the importance of emotional intelligence during his MBA, and has recently completed the CAEI Certificate in Applied Emotional Intelligence. It is not the strongest of the species who survive, The most successful organisations have accepted this adapt or die truism and have integrated the capacity for continuous learning and change at a core level. However, these organisations are currently few and far between! Diversity initiatives met with compliance rather than a collective commitment to the value of different perspectives and contributions Bullying and aggression tolerated and perhaps even celebrated: Its my way or the highway Fit In or F*** Off (FIFO): the coercive JFDI approach as the predominant leadership style. Managers seeking status & hierarchy adopt a superior attitude, for example, avoiding eye contact and communication with front-line workers A huge gap between what leaders say and what they do People are seen as liabilities rather than as assets: the HR function is under constant pressure to demonstrate that it is adding value to the organisation |
Let us take an example. This example 1 highlights the importance of applying EI principles across the OD programme: EI works on attitude at individual, team and organisational level.
This links with the move towards providing tangible measures of the value of Human Capital in organisations. The most forward-thinking companies have made this link and built measurement of employee engagement into their culture: committed employees = improved customer satisfaction = improved business performance. I have highlighted some scenarios that may be seen to indicate an organisational culture with very low collective EI. I also recommended that EI principles should be integrated into the analysis, design and implementation of O.D. initiatives to move towards an organisational culture with higher collective EI. To provide a prescriptive list of How to
is beyond the range of this article: organisations are as different as people and so each requires a bespoke approach understanding that sustainable change in the long term is the key requirement. Define a positive purpose and clear values & behaviours based on trust that can be understood and adopted by everyone in the organisation Apply these principles consistently in the way you communicate to employees across all communication media Plan for and welcome the surfacing of difficult emotions as long as they are below the surface change will prove difficult. Give employees a voice so they feel involved in the process: listen and respond honestly to concerns, ideas and different points of view. Promote and reward role models who are consistent and authentic in their attitude & behaviours Identify quick wins that will symbolise the culture change that is desired: communicate extensively once these are implemented Do not tolerate selfish or bullying behaviours. Use observations and 360 degree assessments to identify those that rule through fear provide these people with individual EI coaching. Provide support for those teams and individuals that are finding change difficult. Raise the level of positive feedback and praise throughout the organisation and ensure successes that reinforce change are celebrated. |
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Tim Sparrow started his business life as an HR consultant and organisational psychologist with ShellMex & BP, the oil marketing company. Here he researched personnel work patterns and psychological motivations and formed several long lasting contacts with international consultants with whom he still exchanges the latest research findings in human performance enhancement. Tim went on to become a management consultant with the Chris Schumacher Consultancy. In this consultancy he worked almost exclusively with Philips plc on their production organisation but the interest he had in individuals and what makes them tick kept on developing. He began to study clinical and applied psychology to complement his Masters degrees in social anthropology, social psychology and industrial relations.After twenty three years in the world of business and government, Tims belief in the importance of empowerment of the individual finally lead him to set up a clinical psychology practice in partnership with colleague and life partner, Elizabeth Morris, in 1991. Watching people become self-aware and able to exercise many more options in their relationships with other people gave him a sense of personal fulfilment. However his organisational experience stood him in very good stead in his clinical work as it gave him a very practical, down to earth approach. He was less interested in talking and exploring and much more interested in doing and improving. His clients were challenged by him but inspired to live up to their potential and found themselves becoming more powerful and effective as their performance improved through their increasing skills in self management and relationship management. Within a short time he was being asked by companies such as Motorola to assist them in developing their employee assistance programmes. Consultancy, training, mediation and mentoring in the workplace quickly became a large part of the practice. |
Starting in 1996, thorough and scrupulous as usual, Tim researched all the Emotional Intelligence tests that were being developed and assessed them for their strengths and weaknesses. He was therefore able to give constructive, sensible and impartial advice to clients on the most suitable assessment tool for their needs. The trouble was that the feedback usually was: I can see that there are problems with all these measures, why dont you design one that works? So he has become an expert on the measurement of EI, and has co-developed 1) the first true Team EI test and 2) the only measure of individual EI which is composed, as required, of a mixture of scales - more is better and you can have too much of a good thing, in other words a combination of linear and bipolar scales. These are the Team Effectiveness questionnaire (TEq) and the Individual Effectiveness questionnaire (IEq), the measures the CAEI currently uses. |
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Emotional intelligence development from the CAEI is provided in two ways: either as development and training for the individual, or as developmental programmes and services for organisations. |
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| For further information visit: www.emotionalintelligence.co.uk | |
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