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The most significant influence on an organisations performance is its leaders and the most impactful leaders are authentic leaders. How closely the perception of an organisations brand by people outside of the organisation matches the core values defined by the organisation itself is very dependent on the organisations leaders being authentic. Similarly, authentic leadership is a crucial requirement when inspiring and encouraging others during uncertain times. Living the values and being the change are easy to say, but not easy to do.Elaine Latham, Director of Improvement at the SW Peninsula NHS Strategic Health Authority, and Carla Ginn from the Skandia Group join Amanda to share their experiences of building applied emotional intelligence into their leadership development programmes to promote authentic leadership. This includes:
The climate of an organisation is created by the organisations top team. Therefore to set about maximising an organisations potential through EI development, the top team need to be developed first. In this session we consider two case studies to show the highs and lows of creating an emotionally intelligent top team.Geoff Atkinson, CEO, South Somerset Homes, Kevin Dey, Managing Director, Weymouth & Portland Housing and Catherine Laing, Group Director of Corporate Services, Synergy Housing Group share their experiences of a 6 month EI based management development programme with their top teams the CEO, directors and senior managers in which group members:
The participants from WPH evidenced their development with a written project and a review presentation on how the programme had made a difference to them as individuals and to the company.
![]() Currently coaching is the most fashionable performance intervention. On the one hand, coaching is the intervention of choice for developing EI and on the other, EI is the basis of choice for effective executive coaching. In this session we focus on:
If you are not clear what emotional intelligence is, it is difficult to set about increasing an organisations effectiveness by raising the emotional intelligence of the organisation and the teams and individuals within it. Yet a perennial problem with EI is finding a common agreement among experts on its definition. Views vary from EI being a set of personality traits, or a bundle of competencies, to it being a combination of cognitive abilities. In our view, it is none of these, which is why EI actually adds value over and above these three aspects. In essence EI is not our personality but how we manage our personality. It is generated by a set of values, attitudes and habits that enable us to manage our behaviour so as to be personally and interpersonally effective. This presentation will challenge many myths about EI, will present clear definitions that explain what EI is from a theoretical, biological and practitioner perspective, and will spell out the implications of this for setting out to apply the benefits of EI in organisations. If you are not clear what EI is, or if you are under the (to us) misleading impression that it is an aspect of personality, just a set of competencies, or a bundle of cognitive abilities, then this is the session for you.
Whilst the development of EI is highly desirable and important, the drawback is that it involves the changing of long-held attitudes and habits, and therefore can take a long time, so any means of speeding up the process is truly valuable. In this session, we outline the role of experiential learning in accelerated EI development, and will give examples of some of the biggest changes achieved by such programmes through combining experiential and theoretical sessions. The session will include:
Change is an increasingly unavoidable reality for organisations but is difficult to implement successfully without a decline in performance and demotivated staff. This seminar will use practical examples to demonstrate the benefits of the marriage of AppliedEI and organisational change programmes in order to:
Anyone who has to grapple with introducing change into organisations (and who doesnt?) will benefit from this session.
How do you incorporate emotionally intelligent attitudes and skills into your organisations competency programmes, and why should you bother? Using examples of a range of competency programmes from both the private and the public sectors, Marilyn explores how to differentiate between skills and attitudes, why this matters, and the pitfalls of not doing it. She also shows how to identify EI components that are already present within your existing programmes. Once implemented, EI-based competency programmes then create a new challenge for HR. How do you get the management competencies right so that you can adapt them for staff, and so that they can be understood and used right across the organisation? If you work for an organisation that already has a competency framework and are interested in promoting EI, then this is the seminar for you.
Stress is evermore talked about, yet evermore present, and we dont seem to have effective resources for dealing with it. The CAEI model of EI and our understanding of the physiological basis of EI, generate clear recommendations for successful intervention. Discover:
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The concept of AppliedEI was created by Tim Sparrow in the late 90s following the upsurge in interest in the application of emotional intelligence in organisations.
The latest research into emotions and neuroscience presented in Dan Golemans book Emotional Intelligence Why it can matter more than IQ, along with how this was impacting us at work, explored in his follow-up Working with Emotional Intelligence, had stimulated members of the HR and training sectors on both sides of the Atlantic. Here was new information about how our emotions impact on our behaviour, and possibly a new answer to the age-old challenges of people development. From Tims perspective it defined the work he had been doing as an organisational psychologist and psychotherapist for the previous 25 years. EI profiling tools became available in the States to measure levels of emotional intelligence, and Tim took himself off to America to learn all that he could about how EI was being measured and implemented there. What he found was a confusing message. There were differing views from the American experts as to what emotional intelligence actually was, with definitions and models describing EI as either an aspect of personality, or a range of skills and competences demonstrated at a behavioural level. Coming back to the UK, with a bevy of accreditations under his belt, Tim set himself up as an honest broker, making these new EI tools available to the UK market. He also set about dissecting the various profiling tools and models of EI, and comparing these with his own understanding of emotions informed by his work as a humanistic psychologist And the concept of applied emotional intelligence was born. The conclusions that Tim came to are summed up in his 5 Crucial Aspects of EI. THE 5 CRUCIAL ASPECTS OF EI Our understanding of EI and why it is important can be summed up in five key points.
1. EI is multifaceted Emotional intelligence is not a thing; still less is it one thing. It is a handy label for a bundle of related but separate variables which together constitute what we conceive of as EI. Thus, whenever we use the term emotional intelligence or EI, we are using shorthand for all those related but separate variables which together characterise the behaviour of those people who integrate their feeling and their thinking when choosing what to do, and therefore excel at self management and relationship management, which is a bit of a mouthful. Similarly, whenever we say it, we should strictly say they or them. Hence, as we have seen, it is misleading nonsense to reduce somebodys emotional intelligence to a single figure and say Your EQ is X. People may be strong in one aspect of EI, yet relatively weak in another. We are all of us unique, and have our own unique experiences and view of the world, and hence our own unique pattern of emotional intelligence. 2. EI predicts performance This is, of course, the key reason why interest in emotional intelligence and its application is not proving to be the flash in the pan that some people expected it would be. Whatever we do, we are interested in performance improvement, and that means we should be interested in emotional intelligence.
The connection between good life outcomes and emotional intelligence is not surprising when you consider the following syllogism:
Obviously there are some jobs where the need for emotional intelligence is greater than others: all jobs involving a significant element of person management and/or leadership, all jobs involving direct contact with the public (therefore, other things being equal, service jobs rather than production jobs), all sales jobs, all jobs involving development of others (all management jobs again, all jobs in education, in HR & training, consultancy ) and so on and so on. But in the end, it is hard to think of a job where emotional intelligence is not one of the determinants of success: whatever our job, we have to manage ourselves, and in the vast majority of jobs we also have to manage relationships, with colleagues, with bosses, with subordinates, with customers, with the general public, with suppliers, and so on. Professional hermits (and they are not very common these days) may be immune from the need for relationship management, but not really anybody else. So, in short, emotional intelligence is an important determinant of performance, to a greater or lesser degree, in all jobs. And also in no job at all: since we are talking about health and happiness as well as about success, we are inevitably talking about life outcomes as a whole as well as job performance.
While, for the sake of clarity, we have broken down the crucial aspects of EI into five separate points, they are of course far more valuable in combination than they would be on their own. For example, having something which predicted performance would not be much practical use to us if we couldnt measure it. And having something which we could measure would be of only academic interest if it bore no relationship to performance. And even together, these two points wouldnt help much if it werent for the next following point as well. And we can accelerate the process by taking action to develop aspects of our emotional intelligence. All aspects of EI are changeable because they depend not so much on innate capacities as on the number and degree of the interferences, particularly the internal interferences, that prevent us from realising our potential in our actual performance. Therefore enhancing our EI will consist largely in identifying our interferences and then learning either to dismantle them or at least to manage them.
The connexion between EI being measurable and being changeable and developable is very intimate, as well as powerful. Measurement allows a person to decide where to concentrate their development effort, and can be used to monitor the success of it. But also the fact that EI is changeable rather than fixed means that being measured is not such a scary process. Many people are reluctant to undergo intelligence or psychometric tests, because they fear that the tests, and the testers, will tell them how they are and will always be. And if they score low, as they may fear, that will be an eternal condemnation that they can do nothing about. By making clear to people, both in advance of their completing the measure, and in the process of exploring the results, that all the things being measured here they can change if they want to, we can go a long way towards reducing this fear and this reluctance.
The corollary is that emotional intelligence practitioners need to behave in a professional and ethical manner as they go about their work, in a way that they would not have to do if they were teaching someone cost-accounting or French. This is particularly true because feelings are part of their stock in trade, and a persons feelings are involved with their very sense of themselves.
AppliedEI is now a trademark AppliedEI. AppliedEI represents our approach to EI development the importance of attitudes in the development of EI. Attitudes are our evaluative position towards something, someone (including ourselves), or some idea, and are predominantly made up of feelings. Understanding our feelings, and how they form our attitudes, with their impact on our behaviour is therefore essential to the effective development of emotional intelligence. Tim and I have written our book AppliedEI to be published by Wileys this summer. © Amanda Knight |
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Having examined the first three scales of the There is a number of different ways in which we can achieve this awareness of the feeling of others. It may be a conscious cognitive process: I notice that this person is pale and unhappy-looking, and continually looking around them, and I therefore conclude This person is scared. Or it may be an unconscious cognitive process: I dont know why, but this person seems to me to be scared. Or it may be the cognitive consequence of the feeling process of empathy, whereby I notice that I feel scared, and then I realize that this is really somebody elses scare, and so I become aware of what they are feeling. Our ability to empathise with others, to feel what others are feeling, is hardwired within the limbic system of the brain. The evolutionary purpose of this is to help us predict how others are likely to behave, i.e. will they try to hurt me or help me? There is a growing body of research on the social brain showing how closely connected we are with other people. For example, we have the capacity pick up what people may be thinking and feeling from minute variations in human behaviour, such as the tone of voice and facial movements, much of which is only detected at an unconscious intuitive level. Immediately from birth we have an instinctive tendency to read our mothers face and to detect meaning in voices. It has also been established that when we empathise we fire off the same neuronal patterns as the person we are empathising with - think of a time you have gone Ouch! when you see someone hurt themselves. Let us now consider the relationship between Awareness of Others and our models of emotional intelligence. Other Awareness sits on the Interpersonal Intelligence side of the EI framework, and has a strong link with Relationship Management. If I lack understanding and awareness of others then it will be more difficult for me to know what other people want or feel, so I am less able to adapt or respond appropriately. For example, when I am making a presentation to an audience I look for the energy in the group; when it is low I may have a break or do more activity. My ability to respond appropriately requires both being observant and aware at that current moment, and also as previous experience which tells me what clues to look out for, e.g. people yawning, looking downward or slumping in their chairs. An extreme example of someone with low Awareness of Others is people with Aspergers syndrome (a milder form of autism), where individuals have great difficulty empathizing with other people. They may learn techniques or cognitive rules for developing relationship management such as When other people laugh, then laugh along, or When someone looks at their watch it may be time to end the conversation. What they lack is an appreciation of how the other person may be feeling, e.g. amused or bored. © Tim Sparrow (Centre for Applied Emotional Intelligence) and Jo Maddocks (JCA)
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